If you want to make a girl fall in love with you, play it cool. And as much as you want to go all out with your guns blazing and proclaim your love for her because that’s what your heart tells you to do, avoid it!...CLICK HERE TO READ THE FULL ARTICLE➤
Play the game with your mind instead. Take calculated risks with each new step, especially if the girl you love doesn’t like you just yet.
Use these 20 ways on how to make a girl fall in love with you, and as long as avoid a reckless streak, you should be well on your way to winning her heart.
1. Don’t rush things
Take your time and play it cool. Never ever make your intentions too clear to the girl you like, and don’t be overeager to pour out your feelings.
2. Give her just the right amount of attention
Don’t drop your commitments and give her all your attention all the time. That’s the easiest way to make a girl get bored of you really soon.
An older woman will appreciate a man who’s dropping his priorities to make time for her, but when a girl is younger, she’ll assume you’re a boring guy with all the time in the world to spare. That’s not going to give her the best impression of you.
Remember to stick to your regular routine and see your friends too. Anyway, it’s important not to lose yourself when you fall in love.
3. Love yourself first and foremost
This is very important if you want to make a girl fall for you or fall in love with you. Do you truly love yourself? If you don’t think you’re awesome, how can you convince the world and all the beautiful girls in it that you’re an awesome guy?
Fall in love with yourself and respect yourself. Then, the world will see you the same way too!
4. Let her see that you have a life
Keep yourself busy and involve yourself in different activities. Go on out there and enjoy the world. It could be by trekking over the weekend, joining a few fun clubs, or even doing something new with your friends.
The more interesting you and your conversations are, the more awed by you she’ll be. And, as we said before, it’s vital that you keep your own independence and hobbies outside of any relationship you’re in too.
5. Always look good
Looks aren’t every girl’s biggest priority, but it’ll definitely be a perk if you can look fit and healthy. Work out, look healthy, dress well, and smell great.
You’ll make a much better first impression with every girl you meet. Of course, you should do this for yourself first and foremost, but it never hurts when trying to win a girl over!
6. Believe in yourself
It’s not easy to believe in yourself when you think you’re a nobody. But just because you think you’re failing with women or unable to impress a girl, that’s no reason to call yourself a failure.
Start believing in yourself and your capabilities, and enjoy the world. If it doesn’t work out one time, just put it down to experience and try again. You can always learn something from every disappointment. That means you can do better next time.
7. Don’t show your insecurities or your jealous streak
Never reveal your jealous streak to the girl you like, if you intend to make the girl fall in love with you. This is especially if she’s getting a lot of attention from other guys who are trying to woo her at the same time.
If she sees you as an insecure and jealous guy, she’ll just think you’re a creepy guy. A little bit of jealousy is cute, but only after she starts showing signs of liking you back.
Similarly, if you start telling her the things you’re insecure about, she’s going to start looking for them. Don’t point things out you don’t want her to se! [Read: How to win a girl’s heart even if there’s another guy that likes her]
8. Avoid becoming clingy
Always give a girl her space, especially when you’re trying to woo her. Don’t keep bumping into her intentionally, avoid constantly staring at her each time she’s talking to some other guy.
Also, stop calling her every night or texting her every few hours. Give her some space and give her the chance to miss you. Then she’ll realize how bored she is without having you around
9. Be the dependable guy
Help her when she needs something. Be the guy she can depend on to get her out of trouble. Girls love it when a guy they’re with has a protective streak.
If she feels safe around you, or believes you’re a guy who can handle any tough situation, you’re already in her good books.
10. Flirt in a friendly yet naughty way
She probably won’t flirt if there are other guys around, so try to get some alone time with her if possible. If you want to take it slow because you’re uncertain about her feelings for you, start by flirting as a friend. [Read: How to flirt with a girl and still behave just like a friend]
Then, once you’re past the friendly flirting, take it to the next level. The best way to flirt with a girl and make her shed her inhibitions is by flirting while texting or while talking over the phone.
If you want to be a little naughty, call her over the phone late in the evening, or when she’s in bed. Lower your tone and speak softly, and before you know it, both of you will be flirting in a way she doesn’t flirt with anyone else! [Read: 20 naughty text messages to start a sexy conversation]
11. Use the power of touch
The power of touch is something most guys overlook while trying to make a girl fall in love with them. While talking to her, look for an excuse to touch her now and then.
You could place your hand on her lower back while crossing the street, or touch her earlobe while admiring her earring. You could even linger in a hug for just a moment longer than necessary while saying goodbye.
However, do look for body language signs that she is comfortable with this. If you get the vibe that she’s not, back away a little and give her the space she obviously needs.
12. Don’t tell her you love her or like her
This is a big mistake, at least if you say it before she shows signs of liking you or falling for you. Always leave her wondering what’s on your mind even if you’re flirting with her. The curiosity will make her want you already.
Hang out with her alone a few times before you even think of telling her that you like her. Remember, you need to make her work for you and if you give it all up and tell her you’re crazy about her, she doesn’t have to put any effort in.
13. Give her a thoughtful gift
But, make sure the gift is something small or insignificant that doesn’t even feel like a gift. You could give her a pen, a small ornament, a keyring, or a little something you think she’ll like.
Every time she sees it, it will remind her of you. And yet, because you haven’t told her you like her already, it’ll make her wonder what your intentions are. That’ll get her curious and interested and make her fall for you, slowly and steadily even before she realizes it herself!
14. Don’t give her all the control
Meet her often, text her often and talk to her over the phone often. But every now and then, back off for a day or two and wait for her to call you or ask you out to hang out.
By making her take the effort now and then, you’ll be forcing her to woo you and try to get your attention! That will only make a girl fall harder for you.
15. Make her miss you
This is a short phase you need to make her go through for a few days so she can realize just how much she likes you once you’re past the other steps. After both of you have become really close to each other, make her miss you now and then.
When you’re having an interesting conversation with her, tell her you have to go and hang up just when the conversation starts to get interesting. It’s the easiest way to help her realize how much she needs you in her life!
16. Don’t always be available
If you want to make a girl fall in love with you, be there for her. But if you feel like she’s using you at any point, back off and tell her you’re busy.
If you avoid doing this, you’ll end up becoming her doormat and her man Friday. Remember, a girl will never want to seriously date a guy who behaves like her slave. This is the line that separates a guy deep in the friend zone and a guy she’d want to “tame” and date.
17. But, don’t be an asshole
Being unavailable now and then while wooing a girl is a great way to let her see that you’re not always available at her beck and call. But that doesn’t mean you have to behave like a total ass.
Be charming and courteous around her, and never treat her badly or disrespectfully.
18. Treat her like a girlfriend
Even before you ask her out or tell the girl that you love her, start behaving like a boyfriend. Be protective of her when you’re around, take care of her needs, plan dates together and try to catch up with each other often.
And even before she realizes it, both of you will be dating. She will be madly in love with you already! [Read: The 10 important traits that make a guy a great boyfriend]
19. Don’t play games
A girl is going to quickly see through your game playing. You might think that some of the tips we’ve given you resort to game playing, but they’re not. They’re self-preservation tips that help you to remember your worth.
Of course, by doing that, she also sees it too. Avoid lying, making her jealous, playing too hard to get, or being passive-aggressive or manipulative. It’s not cool and it won’t work if you want to make a girl fall in love with you.
20. Let other people tell her how great you are
Now, she should see it for herself, but it doesn’t hurt to have a third party tell her how fantastic you are. If you have mutual friends, this is easy. Just get them to drop in a good word or two.
If you don’t have any mutual friends, you’re going to have to be creative, but it’s always possible to find a way! ...CLICK HERE TO READ THE FULL ARTICLE➤
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